RELATIONSHIPS AND GARDENS

Relationships are like Gardens:

Flowers and Weeds inevitably try to grow in the soil:

Weeds are the potential issues that arise; I have concluded three ways that people deal with these weeds from observation of all the people I know dealing with relationships and my own experiences:

A: They are so busy focussing on the flowers that they ignore the weeds and some years down the road the weeds have overtaken the garden ... and they are too overwhelmed to deal with it they just stay looking at an ugly garden (staying in ...an unhappy relationship)

B) They are so busy focussing on the flowers and ignoring the weeds that years down the road when the weeds have become so bad they go outl ooking for a better garden (they leave the relationship)

C) Then there are those (like myself) who try to deal with the weeds when the roots are small and pull them out as they come up.... and if that means that the other peron doesnt want to deal .....I can not just stay watching the roots take a strong hold over time or I will become like A and B ... and it will be over anyhow.

Weeds WILL COME.... Either they will consume your garden...or you will pull them out!

BY Anita D'Ambrosie