OBEY

The problem Christians have caused is that they don't get how desperately God loves us all and how high a value people have to Him! Obeying always follows relationship. If not the obeying will probably result in resentment and despair ultimately. That sadly is the equation of many churches. Obey and you will be loved. It's the same dysfunction as a boy that doesn't get his father's love. He will strive through performance to achieve something or become rebellious